I am 31 years old and have been married for 3 years. I work in an environment where I deal with a lot of men. Even though I don't consider myself to be particularly good-looking, I still get hit on by a number of men and then I get involved in sex with them. My husband is sexually boring and the sex is monotonous. I, on the other hand, am really horny for cocks and sperm and fucking whenever and wherever possible. I don't want to mention here why I married my husband and why I stick by him. Breaking up because of my desire for sex is out of the question. I also avoid having sex with the same men multiple times, just to avoid starting a relationship. So mostly ONS. In most cases I have a guilty conscience after sex, but in the situation where the opportunity for sex arises, my mind switches off and I let it happen. I need this Sex. Am I acting so wrongly and reprehensibly?

 

It's hard to say. No one knows your situation like you do.

 

you have needs that need to be filled fill them

 

DM me, would luv to chat

 

Gotta feed your urges

 

You do what you need to do.. I say don't feel guilty.. unless he's actually trying to take care of your needs . If not, get it where you can.
I love my wife, but she puts very little into being concerned about my sexual needs.. I get some when I can.

 

Steffi, I think you are a brave woman to be so honest about yourself and your desires. There really are some of us for whom monogamy is beyond our reach.

 

I do the same thing but to me there’s a difference between love and sex.

 

If your husband is not aware and doesn't support an open relationship, you should feel very guilty...

 

If I were your husband and found out about you, I would be livid. Have you considered becoming a prostitute?

 

I'm with @JanXOXO. If he knows and doesn't care, have fun and stay safe. If he doesn't know and would be pissed off if he found out, then you should feel guilty.

 

I was always faithful to my husband when I was married, sometimes I wish I had stepped out.
It is how you feel deep inside and think of why you want to cheat.
We separated because he became a fat, lazy slob and I could not deal with it.
As my answer? I have no answer.

 

Very interesting how all the stiff dicks lined up. Like we didn't know that was going to happen. Only you can decide the fate of your relationship. Maybe have a talk with him about your needs,wants,kinks and desires? It's just my opinion though and expect others will disagree. Good luck and Maybe keep the cocks In a Wrapper.

 

I have to assume that you knew before you two got married that he was "boring" in bed? Which leads me to say why did you two get married in the first place?

 

Sex and love are 2 different things and sexual monogamy is bullshit, especially if you are bisexual. When your sexual needs and desires far exceed your partners and they cannot give you what you need, society labels it "cheating" when you find fulfillment elsewhere. It should be called championing. Your partner should compliment you, not complicate you. Whatever your reasons for getting married, your husband is probably more than satisfied in the homelife and in the sex department. A ring on your finger should not mean sexual slavery and deprivement. If you love your partner and they need to fuck a football team, tell them to have a good time as you drop them off. You get your needs satisfied then go home to your husband or partner. Sex and love.... 2 different things. If my girl wants to fuck an guy or girl, go for it. Tell me about it later or better yet, send a text or pic to get me excited for her coming home with a glow. Life is short, share your partner.

 

I'm not going to judge you because I've had sex with other people while being married. The difference is, my wife knows and we are in an open relationship. My advice is, tell your husband about your desires. It might improve your sex life with him. A threesome could be in your future. I completely understand the need to have sex with other people. Something you should consider is, soon or later he will find out. Are you prepared to handle that situation? I don't think you should feel guilty because sex is apart of life. Its something we all need.

 

Introduce the idea of a MFM with your husband. Tell him it's always been a fantasy of yours.
Gauge his reaction and decide what your next move will be.
Cheating is not the same as being in a non monogamistic relationship.
Cheating is when you're doing it without their knowledge or consent.